You don't have to earn your worth through doing everything right.
If you constantly feel pressure to meet others’ expectations, avoid conflict, or always appear “together,” you might be stuck in patterns of people pleasing or perfectionism. While these patterns may have helped you feel safe or accepted in the past, they can leave you feeling depleted, anxious, or unsure of who you really are. Therapy can help you reconnect with yourself—without the constant pressure to perform.
Common Reasons for Seeking Therapy
You might be considering therapy if you’re experiencing:
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Difficulty saying no or setting boundaries
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Fear of disappointing others or being judged
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Constantly striving to meet high (often self-imposed) standards
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Struggling to relax or feel “enough”
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Overextending yourself at work, in relationships, or school
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Self-worth tied closely to achievements or others’ approval
Whatever your reason for seeking therapy, we’ll work together to find solutions that work for you.
How Therapy Can Help With People Pleasing & Perfectionism
Therapy offers space to explore where these patterns come from and how they show up in your daily life. Together, we’ll work toward more balance, self-trust, and freedom to show up as your full self.
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Understand the roots of perfectionistic or people-pleasing tendencies
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Develop self-compassion and reduce harsh inner criticism
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Practice setting and maintaining healthy boundaries
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Explore what you truly want—beyond what others expect
Our Therapeutic Approach
We approach this work gently, knowing these patterns are often deeply rooted in past experiences or relationships. Our focus is on helping you reclaim your time, energy, and sense of self—without guilt.
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CBT & ACT: Challenge rigid thought patterns and connect with your values
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IFS & Parts Work: Work with inner critics and overfunctioning parts with compassion
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Somatic & Nervous System Practices: Reduce the body’s stress response to saying no or being imperfect
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Relational Therapy: Heal dynamics that reinforce self-sacrifice or overachievement
Real People. Lived Experience. Genuine Care.
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Your Next Steps
FIND YOUR FIT
Browse our Team Page, or fill out our Therapist Matching Form! Based on your needs and preferences, we’ll help you find a therapist who feels like the right fit. We’ll explain their approach, availability, and what to expect, so you can make an informed decision about your care.
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CONSULTATION
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PATH WITH YOU
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